Are you trusting your vibes?

imagesHow often have you received an idea, felt guided to do or say something only to ignore it and later on wish you had listened? Or, you did act on that idea, made that call, took that action and something miraculous happened? Our intuition, that subtle voice or feeling is the way the universe communicates to us. It’s an incredible gift bestowed upon us as spiritual human beings.

Years ago, while attending massage school in Ithaca, NY I had the honor of meeting Yolanda King, Dr. Martin Luther King’s daughter. Not only did I meet her, she requested that I give her a massage. Needing to build my hours it was the perfect set up! While massaging her, I started receiving messages for her from Dr. King. As Yolanda was a very highly sensitive, spiritually in-tuned person, she sensed something was going on, and wanted to know what it was…. But, because I didn’t trust my inner knowing and the information I received, I never gave her the messages. She insisted that we stay in touch and we both went our separate ways.

Fast forward about three years later, I received multiple nudges in the form a subtle voice saying to “call Yolanda”, and of course I came up with all the reasons why I couldn’t. “She wouldn’t remember me”, “its been three years”, “she’s a very busy woman”. Within a week of ignoring my nudges I received word that she had passed away from a heart attack. Needless to say I was a mess, and made the decision to always trust and honor what I receive from spirit. The information I was to give to Yolanda from her father was indeed confirmed years later through a series of events.

Today I ask you, what nudges are you receiving from the universe that you’re ignoring?

This can make the difference between living a life filled with wonder, divine guidance and trust, or one filled with fear, confusion and disappointment. I share this story because this experience completely changed the course of my life, thankfully for the better.

So often we hesitate on taking action on our vibes, because we want to be sure we know how things are going to turn out, or we worry about how we’re going to be received or perceived by others. If that’s you, my friend, you’re going to be waiting for a very long time, and not fully living the life you’re destined to.

It’s not our place to know the What, How and When of our inner guidance, our work is simply to act on it. When we trust our vibes and take action, we set ourselves up to experience the magic and miracles of life. When we don’t trust them by coming up with all kinds of reasons why we “can’t”, we create huge blocks to receiving the very things we’re asking for, and in my case with Yolanda, a deep sense of regret I don’t ever wish on anyone.

Trusting our vibes takes practice, practice, practice. One of the foundational pieces of working with my clients is teaching them how to listen to and trust their inner guidance. When you trust this knowing, a new world of possibility opens up. This also makes you magnetic, drawing the right people, circumstance and situations to help you along your path. But you must listen, and act!

Here are a few steps to get you started:

1. Act on your inner guidance, no matter how small. Truth feels light and a lie feels heavy, this is how you can tell the difference. By doing so you’ll start to build confidence in your knowing.
2. Make a note of every time you trusted your vibe and the evidence you received from doing so.
3. You must slow down the mind and decrease distraction. The voice of spirit is subtle, and in our busy every day life, its easy to dismiss the messages we receive on a regular basis. How extraordinary are we to be blessed with the magnificent gift of our inner knowing?

Would LOVE to hear your take-away from this post!

To your outrageous success and happiness!

Magic happened…when I said YES!

img_1333In my last post, I promised you I’d share the magic that happened when I said YES!…

A former client and now beloved friend asked me to officiate her wedding. My initial thoughts  were “WHAT? OMG! I can’t do that! I’m too shy, I’m not good with words, I’m terrified of public speaking” (hard to believe I know.) “I’m not sure I can commit. I’ve never done anything like this before.” All the limiting beliefs and lies I’ve bought into about myself came up.The truth is, I was afraid.

After getting off the phone with her, I decided to take a few minutes to think about my decision. It didn’t sit well with me at all. Here’s someone I’ve supported from the beginning, and through our work together she’s become an extraordinary Angel Channeler/Healer, and now is preparing to marry her soul mate. It felt like we’d come full circle, and now because of my fear, the circle would be incomplete. I called her back and said YES!

The moment I said yes (though I didn’t know what I was going to do, or how), a sense of joy and excitement came over me. Throughout the entire process, which included becoming an ordained minister, the universe supported me making it easy and fun.  The ceremony was incredible, and I must admit, beside the bride and groom I was a hit! My intention was to deliver a ceremony that was light, funny and pleasing to the couple and their families. It happened just as I intended.

Saying yes to this opportunity has proven to me that I can confidently and joyfully speak in front of an audience with ease, and created new opportunities for me to serve more people in ways I’d never thought of before. On top of that, it was an extraordinary gift to a couple that was so deserving of experiencing a magical day.

So, today I ask you, what stories and lies have you bought into that are keeping you stuck and playing small? Like I’ve said many times before, the way will not be revealed to you until you say YES. It’s the magic key to opening the door to your power, and the only way for you to ever find out what you’re truly made of.

If you have no interest in being more or doing more, then this is not for you. But, if there’s any part of you that’s craving more from life, then you can begin by embracing the power of saying YES…..

To your outrageous happiness and success!


One word that’ll change your life…


I’m always amazed by the workings of the universe. Its order and simplicity can seem so hard to wrap our minds around, but when we get it, what a difference it makes.

A client of mine was celebrating a major success she had experienced. I asked her what had she contributed to her success, so she could repeat the process. (This is what’s known as mastery.) She became aware that our work together had helped her exponentially shift her vibration and attraction frequency. The better you feel, the more aligned you are with what you want. The other reason was, drum roll please….. she said YES!

These two components are what magic is made of. The power of yes opens doors where there seem to be none. When you say YES, the powers that be go to work on your request. When you say NO, and worry about the how’s and why you can’t, you put up a block to accessing miracles.

Take a minute, close your eyes and say “YES”, and notice the sensation in your body. Next, close your eyes and say “NO”. What sensation do you feel this time? If you’re willing to be honest, the yes felt light and the no felt heavy. Lightness is truth and heaviness is always a lie.

Most of us get stuck because we want to be certain of the outcome. Our limited and finite minds do not have access to all the possibilities that exist. It’s only by letting go of our need to be “in control” that we allow what needs to unfold for our highest good. But we have to give the universe permission (saying yes) to do so. The funny thing is, the universe supports whatever decision we make including us saying no.

Victor was torn between attending a workshop in Spain and spending Thanksgiving with his family this year. We had both been checking the event website for weeks, but the only workable date conflicted with the holiday. Finally, he said yes to attend the event because he felt it would support his spiritual journey. Then, just before we signed up, I happened to notice another event date two weeks after Thanksgiving — and in US! Victor’s saying yes, and honoring his soul’s desire, created a way for him to do both!

If your soul is calling you to make a change, that call must be honored. Otherwise, you will continue to stew in your misery, frustration and pain as life passes you by. That’s no way to live. In truth, you’ve lost enough already and have everything to gain! Say YES to your dreams and your soul’s desires. Your health, your life and peace of mind depend on it!

To your outrageous happiness and success!

You gotta start some where!


A star client of mine will be getting married this coming September. When we first connected she was in an unsatisfying and unfulfilling relationship. Besides that, she deeply wanted to connect with her soul’s purpose. While I didn’t know what direction the course of our journey would take, I knew I could help her. Week after week, she would come to my tiny apartment in midtown Manhattan (back when I offered in-person meetings) for her sessions. Fast forward to today, not only will she be marrying her soul mate in a few weeks, but she also discovered her soul’s purpose as a gifted Angel Channeler/Healer — and is doing it!

Are there dreams and desires that you’re putting off, because you don’t know where to start? The answer is simple: start somewhere. Truth is, once you decide to move in the direction of your desire, the path will be revealed to you. It must! It’s universal law. The only thing stopping you is not having the courage to trust and act when the opportunity presents itself. Without fail, every time I connect with a potential client they always share how they were just thinking of making a change, and then I showed up! Had neither my client nor I had the courage to get started, she probably wouldn’t be where she is today, and I wouldn’t have had the opportunity to fulfill my purpose by being of service to her.

One of my favorite teachers of all time, Lao-Tzu said “the journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step” . So, no matter how frightened and uncertain you may feel, your only work is to take that first step and start somewhere. God, source, universe truly wants the best for you. But you must also want it for yourself. By starting you are declaring to the universe “I’m saying YES to my life and my dreams”. The miracle and magic that will come from that one action is way more than you could ever imagine.

My deepest desire for you is that you don’t spend another day, month and year hoping, wishing and begging for a miracle to come your way. Be it in your relationship, prosperity, health, business or whatever your heart desires. Everything you need is at your disposal, but you must be willing to take that first step. See you on the other side…

Would love to hear your take- away from this post:-)

To your outrageous success and happiness!


You can predict your future!


A client recently shared with me how exciting her dating life is now. When we started working together, she hadn’t dated in several years and had pretty much given up on love. Her limiting beliefs about herself and what was possible in a attracting an ideal relationship had her projecting a future of being single. Through our work together, she transformed her limiting beliefs into ones that were empowering and in alignment with what she wanted. So, it wasn’t a surprise when her dating life got jumpstarted! She was now projecting a future of attracting love.

While we cannot be certain how things are going to turn out in life, what we do have control over are our thoughts and behaviors. Pause for a moment to think of what you’ve given your energy to in the past 6 to 12 months. I can almost guarantee that this is what you’re living today.

For a short while, I worked with another client who was having money problems. Her belief that she was undeserving, and her strong focus on lack were creating a future of having no money. Unfortunately, she wasn’t willing to let go of her “lack” story. Had she been, this would have allowed her to project a future of financial abundance. Sadly, she continues to accumulate more debt, and finds it hard to make ends meet.

What I’ve come to know is that we’re constantly making predictions all day long. Regrettably, most of our predictions do not support us. “I’m depressed”, “I’m broke”, “all the good men/women are taken”, “I can’t do this”, “I can’t afford that”, or “this is going to be hard”…. You get it. Somehow, we manage to be surprised when things turn out just as we predicted. While Albert Einstein’s definition of insanity is “doing the same thing over and over again, and expecting a different result”, I would say “doing and THINKING the same thing, and expecting a different result is the meaning of insanity”.

At the end of the day, we all want to experience happiness, love, wealth and health, and in truth, it’s our divine right to do so. However, our divine life can only be created by the aligned, empowered thoughts and actions we have in the now. Because, everything is energy. Who we’re being and what we’re thinking is what creates the path for our desired future to unfold! 

You are the powerful creator of your reality. Just as the client who started attracting fabulous dates, or the one who continues to experience money challenges, neither is right or wrong, or good or bad. It’s all a matter of directing energy and attention. If you’re going to make predictions anyway, why not make ones that will give you what you want? “This is going to be easy”, “I’m a happy person”, “my perfect partner is out there, they just haven’t found me yet”, ”money comes to me easily and effortlessly”, or “my income is increasing everyday”.

My promise to you is, even if you don’t get everything you want, you’ll feel the delicious excitement of positive expectation — and that’s the most powerful way to create the future you desire! After all, life is meant to be enjoyed!

Would love to hear your predictions, and what you intend to create!

Love, blessings and magic!


Be the cause of your Magnificent 2016

Happy New Year!

Wishing you the most ridiculously awesome year ever!

Be the cause of your Magnificent 2016!


Wouldn’t it be nice to manifest your deepest desires in an easy and effortless way in 2016? Lucky for you, the high energy surrounding this year is the perfect set-up for that to happen. The only thing (and person) that will get in the way is you…

Recently, I was daydreaming about someone taking my place at work for the day, and my getting paid for it. Of course, they would be highly compensated as well. I then heard a soft voice say “that is highly possible, but you have to be the cause of it.” This statement was confirmation of the fact that we are truly the creators of our reality. I felt incredibly grateful for this divine message, and thought was a blessed way to begin the New Year. I also realized that this was the message to share.

Do you sincerely want to experience a happy, healthy, creative, joyous expansive and prosperous year? Then this New Year will require you to be a new you in every which way.

A former client, and now dear friend sent this to me recently. Thanks for all the lovely things you said about my sweetie and I. And thanks for helping me attract him!!! I’m so glad he and I found each other, and it is due in no small part to you!”  While it would be great to take credit for my client attracting her perfect mate, the truth is all I did was teach her how to be the cause of bringing her divine partner into her life.

It doesn’t matter how big or small, and how long you’ve been wanting to touch, feel and live your desire, the honest truth is it can be done. When you get in the core of your being that it comes through and from you, things will start to happen beyond your wildest dreams. I know without a doubt that every delicious, fabulous (and not so fabulous) experience that’s taken place in my life, or in the life of my clients, was because we were the cause of them. This is what it means to stand in your power.

Actions steps to being the cause of your magnificent 2016!

Step 1. Awareness: Being aware that you are the cause of your reality resets your vibration from being a victim to being an empowered creator. Life is happening for you, instead of to you.

Step 2. New Year, New You: Most of us are thrilled about saying “Happy New Year”, and setting goals and intentions. But, somehow we forget that nothing will be different if we are no different in our thoughts, being and actions. Wonder why its been “same old, same old?”

Step 3. Dream Big! Nothing is going to get you out of the rut more than dreaming big. What do you want to do, experience, feel and have in this lifetime? Let the energy of these desires open up a whole new world for you.

Step 4. Receive support: I cannot stress this enough — you only know what you know. Your dreams are bigger than you, and need the necessary wisdom, tools, knowledge and sacred space within which to grow. Receiving support to fulfill your dreams is the ultimate act of self-love.

Step 5. Gratitude letter to the universe: Joyfully take some time and write, in advance, a gratitude letter to the universe for all of your outrageously awesome manifestations in 2016. Date your letter January 1st, 2017, list all your dreams, ways of being and intentions you wish to experience in this coming year. Seal and put away to be opened on December 31st, 2016. Can’t wait to hear what unfolds!

To creating massive magic in 2016!