You can predict your future!

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A client recently shared with me how exciting her dating life is now. When we started working together, she hadn’t dated in several years and had pretty much given up on love. Her limiting beliefs about herself and what was possible in a attracting an ideal relationship had her projecting a future of being single. Through our work together, she transformed her limiting beliefs into ones that were empowering and in alignment with what she wanted. So, it wasn’t a surprise when her dating life got jumpstarted! She was now projecting a future of attracting love.

While we cannot be certain how things are going to turn out in life, what we do have control over are our thoughts and behaviors. Pause for a moment to think of what you’ve given your energy to in the past 6 to 12 months. I can almost guarantee that this is what you’re living today.

For a short while, I worked with another client who was having money problems. Her belief that she was undeserving, and her strong focus on lack were creating a future of having no money. Unfortunately, she wasn’t willing to let go of her “lack” story. Had she been, this would have allowed her to project a future of financial abundance. Sadly, she continues to accumulate more debt, and finds it hard to make ends meet.

What I’ve come to know is that we’re constantly making predictions all day long. Regrettably, most of our predictions do not support us. “I’m depressed”, “I’m broke”, “all the good men/women are taken”, “I can’t do this”, “I can’t afford that”, or “this is going to be hard”…. You get it. Somehow, we manage to be surprised when things turn out just as we predicted. While Albert Einstein’s definition of insanity is “doing the same thing over and over again, and expecting a different result”, I would say “doing and THINKING the same thing, and expecting a different result is the meaning of insanity”.

At the end of the day, we all want to experience happiness, love, wealth and health, and in truth, it’s our divine right to do so. However, our divine life can only be created by the aligned, empowered thoughts and actions we have in the now. Because, everything is energy. Who we’re being and what we’re thinking is what creates the path for our desired future to unfold! 

You are the powerful creator of your reality. Just as the client who started attracting fabulous dates, or the one who continues to experience money challenges, neither is right or wrong, or good or bad. It’s all a matter of directing energy and attention. If you’re going to make predictions anyway, why not make ones that will give you what you want? “This is going to be easy”, “I’m a happy person”, “my perfect partner is out there, they just haven’t found me yet”, ”money comes to me easily and effortlessly”, or “my income is increasing everyday”.

My promise to you is, even if you don’t get everything you want, you’ll feel the delicious excitement of positive expectation — and that’s the most powerful way to create the future you desire! After all, life is meant to be enjoyed!

Would love to hear your predictions, and what you intend to create!

Love, blessings and magic!

Keiya

Practice a little spiritual selfishness

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I don’t know anyone who was ever taught that being selfish was a good thing. Seeing that I don’t know everyone in the world, maybe you do. On the journey to realizing my dreams, and those of my clients, I’ve discovered that unless you are selfish with your time, energy and attention your divine desires will remain right where they are, in your dreams…

If you take an inventory of where your energy goes on a daily basis, chances are you’ll find that its being invested in the lives, dreams, and plans of everyone else instead of yours. With what’s left over you attempt to put into you, by then you are drained, depleted and exhausted. Another day goes by with your dreams put on the back burner. Besides your desires being shelved, you’ll find that you are frustrated, angry and resentful at your family job and circumstances that you perceive to be the cause of you not moving forward. However, in truth they are innocent bystanders in the creation of your movie. (If you have no dreams or aspirations, other than surviving, then this of course does not apply to you.)

Being spiritually selfish requires a great deal of courage. When you decide to withdraw from being overly involved other people’s lives (which can be a great source energy drainage), it will seem to them like you don’t care. Being selfish also requires you to withdraw from self-sabotaging patterns and behaviors like over-shopping, overeating and over-drinking to name a few. If you have ever taken up the path of spiritual selfishness, I’m sure you can attest to how challenging the guilt, doubts, what others will say and think of you, along with the sadness and loneliness that comes along with it, can be.

However, on the flip side, you will free up an unimaginable amount energy and space in your life. This will allow you to deeply connect with YOU and your soul’s desires like never before. All of a sudden, ideas, inspiration and joy will find their way into your heart, and the right and perfect way for you to create balance will be revealed.

“Spiritual selfishness” as I call it, is the ultimate act of self love. This is not an act of your ego or to withdraw from others to prove a point. Its simply a way of saying “I am making a conscious choice to uncover what makes my heart sing. What will make me come alive to experience my very best life?”

Eventually, a funny thing will happen – you’ll find that you are so much better equipped to support the very same people from a healthy, happy and grounded place. You’ll also be an inspiration to them because you will be an example of someone living or going after your dreams. Isn’t this what you truly desire anyway,  to live your most fabulous life while inspiring and supporting others to do the same? If this resonates with you, then try a little spiritual selfishness. It’ll take you a very long way.

Here are a few tips to get you started…

  1. Make time every day for some “spirit and me” time.
  2. Find someone who will support you in your endeavors.
  3. The bigger your dreams and aspirations, the more “spiritual selfishness “will be required.
  4. Remember you are partnering with the divine, so you will always be supported, guided and protected. 
  5. Take action!

To your outrageous happiness and success!

Love & Miracles,

Keiya

 

 

 

How love helped me live my purpose…

 

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I am enjoying living my calling, doing work that I love that makes a difference and changes lives. While this was very important to me, another area in my life that felt more important at the time was desire to attract my soul mate. What I didn’t realize at the time was how much of my creative energy was being drained by wanting this level of relationship. If you are someone who feels call to live your purpose, then the lack of creative energy can be a very big problem..

It doesn’t matter what you have or what you do, the desire to deeply connect with another being  is one of our greatest intentions. Makes sense, because we are LOVE. The energies of loneliness, sadness, feeling unloved and wanting take up a lot of space in your being.

Eight years ago, I was blessed to connect with my soul mate, Victor, and boy what a meeting it was! (To be shared in another post….) Since meeting him, my life has expanded in the most magnificent ways. I have a best friend, confidant, partner, playmate and supporter who loves me unconditionally. The greatest unexpected gift of being with him was the space that opened up for me to to live my purpose. No longer was I bogged down with the feelings of hopelessness, loneliness and sadness, but I now was living from the energies of joy, hope, excitement and creativity. Not having a mate does not mean you cannot a fulfilling life. However, if you desire to experience a deliciously satisfying relationship, you know exactly what I’m talking about.

Fulfilling your destiny is having every area of your life come alive by experiencing your greatest desires. Being in a soul-connected relationship is a big part of that. However, you can only be in a soul mate relationship if you are aligned with who you are at a soul level. As one of my clients put it:

“since working with Keiya I have gained a deeper understanding of who I am on a soul level. The icing on the cake is being in the most healthy and loving relationship of my life!”

So today I ask you, is being in a divinely delicious fulfilling relationship a desire for you?

Are you seeking to take your current relationship to a soul mate level?

Do you desire to live a life of creativity, meaning and contribution, but find that attracting your ideal mate is taking up too much of your energy?

Know that it doesn’t have to be so, and I’d LOVE to show you how!

To your outrageous happiness and success!

Love & Miracles,

Keiya